Barbara De Angelis3.87151 ratings11 reviewsWant to ReadBuy on AmazonRate this book张德芬：“很多自认为修行很好的人，其实也过不了亲密关系这一关。”每个在爱的人都绝望地发现自己深陷一个迷局：无论多么相爱，都无法避免伤痛、愤懑、恐惧和失望。即使费尽力气，也无法使自己在爱中处于主动地位。“从灵性的角度上来说，我并不觉得这本书肤浅。很多自认为修行很好的人，其实也过不了亲密关系这一关。所以，我觉得这本书是最简单易懂又容易上手的爱情指南，想要恋爱的人，应该人手一本来奉读。不过，就像所有的教科书一样，如果读了之后，只是把它当成‘大补汤’而不在生活中身体力行，那么，它是不会起到长久的效果的。知而奉行，是我们此刻最需要的承诺！！”每个在爱中的人都绝望地发现自己深陷一个迷局：无论多么相爱，都无法避免伤痛、愤懑、恐惧和失望。即使费尽力气，也无法使自己在爱中处于主动地位。《如何在爱中修行》指出了我们在爱中常常会犯的一些基本错误：不表达感情（怕被伤害或是怕失去），不表达需要（觉得说出自己的需求很丢脸，而且希望对方能够“猜中”自己的心思），其结果往往是让自己遭受加倍的伤害与误解。本书的目的在于教导我们如何用爱来完善自己，成为更好的人，从而提升自己对爱的把控力。GenresRelationshipsSelf HelpPsychologyMarriage256 pages, Kindle Edition
First published June 26, 1987
Book details & editions13 people are currently reading391 people want to readAbout the authorBarbara De Angelis91 books283 followersFollowFollowBarbara De Angelis Ph.D. is one of the most influential teachers of our time in the field of relationships and personal growth. For the past twenty-five years, she has reached tens of millions of people throughout the world with her positive messages about love, happiness and the search for meaning in our lives. As a best-selling author, popular television personality and sought after motivational speaker, Barbara has been a pioneer in the field of personal transformation as one of the first people to popularize the idea of self-help in the 1980's, and as one of the first nationally recognized female motivational teachers on television.